His first gay time and now all this....HELP? Okay my best friend just came out with being gay. He had his first...unthinkable moment with him and he sent me a message talking about it. Well his family found out and is freaking out. Also his grandma wont let him come back to stay with her again (that's what he was planning to do in like a month). Now i don't know what to do, i feel like it was my fault because he wanted to call me but i didn't have my phone so he sent me the message. How do i make it up to him? He says he's not mad at me but you cant tell he's beyond sad...HELP |
| could he stay with u in the meantime. that would help him out a lot. OR you could say that it was jsut a joke to get back at him for something, and taking the HUGE fall for the family to blame it on u. seems like they would accept any lie at this point, as long as it included that their son/grandson was not gay -_- |
His first gay time and now all this...HELP? Okay my best friend just came out with being gay. He had his first...unthinkable moment with him and he sent me a message talking about it. Well his family found out and is freaking out. Also his grandma wont let him come back to stay with her again (that's what he was planning to do in like a month). Now i don't know what to do, i feel like it was my fault because he wanted to call me but i didn't have my phone so he sent me the message. How do i make it up to him? He says he's not mad at me but you cant tell he's beyond sad...HELP |
well first of all GAY MEN ROCK!!!!!!!!! and 2nd. his family has to accept who he is..and GAY HE IS! cant change that.its not a virus that can go away familys think it is lol but its not he was born gay.. he will die gay.. its just the way it is.. they have to accept him.. bloods thicker then water.
dont judge a book by its cover or his sexual orientation lol
i love all kinds of people and accept them all for who they are. as should you sweetie
maybe go to a coffee shop or something have a sit down talk with him over coffee explain how you feel and talk to him have him explain you things and so on and on goes from there
talking is really good talk to your awesome friend he really needs a friend since his family is all freaking out.. so this is how you can make it up to him by being there show him u understand and care and that most of all you accept him for who he is..
all you have to do is ACCEPT HIM FOR WHO HE IS! be there and support him thats what a true friend does |
What should a young gay guy expect in his first time going inside a gay club/ bar? Should I approach the guys there? How can I attract someone? Is it embarrassing? Is it loud? Or will it be boring and dull? |
| Depends on the club. Try to go to one that has guys your age (or the age you'd like to date/hook up with). You can do the approaching. In fact, considering all the bottom-boys who think they're princesses who need to be courted, I'd suggest it. Don't get discouraged if you run into some jerks. There can be a lot of game-playing in clubs, gay or straight. They're generally louder the later it goes. And, it's only as embarrassing/boring/dull as you want it to be. If you find it so, then leave and go to another. If you're not going by yourself, it's better to go with 2+ friends than 1, because a couple of friends can look like a couple, and that might not help you meet guys. |
I just gave my 5 month old, bannana for the first time and his stool was greenish/gay? Is that normal? This is his first fruit and first time I gave him a lunch meal. Still has a normal appetite for cereal. Still active and happy. He slept through the night. |
| Yes I gave my son Banana yesterday for the first time and his poop was that color and a little orange from the carrots! It was nasty! But normal!! |
How u trick ur bestfriend in to have gay sex wit u for his first time? Ok my bestfriend is straight but there's something telling me that he wants to try it on how he act sometimes does anybody out there have any I mean any good ideas |
| That is very dishonorable of you. If he wants to do it, he should do it on his own terms, not yours. You should be ashamed of yourself for trying to trick your best friend. |
In First Gay Relationship. First 'Intimate' time advice? Mature Advice please.? I've been in a gay relationship for about a month now with a very close friend now and things are going great!
I'm a 21 year old male student and have currently started a gay romance with my best friend who is 20. I ended my 5 year relationship with my ex girlfriend a year ago and after a gay friend confessed his feelings to me; I agreed to start my first gay relationship with him.
I have previously asked a question regarding this new relationship here:
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I was worried about going into this with my close friend but things have been going really well surprisingly; very little has changed since we started dating. We still hang out like we used to, our friends are still the same around us, the only thing that has changed is the affection and constent cuddles from him; sometimes I think he does it just to annoy me with his cuteness.
The past week has been a bit nerve-racking as even though nothing has really changed, when we are alone it does get hot an heavy; we make out and have had the constent gropping; I even preformed oral sex on him the other day. I was so nervous about it and dreading it but after a few minutes I really got into it; so was he of course. Long story short he got off (big time) and has been REALLY lovey dovey these past few days. The easter holidays has let us spend some intimate time together but we have not had sex yet. I lost my virginity to my ex years ago and not had for about a year where as my lover (I have no idea what I call him, its still strange) is still a virgin and really nervous about when the time comes.
Last night we where watching a movie at his place and half way through we got a little bored & frisky so after a long make out session, I started to undo his jeans when we where making out and he was really getting worked up. Just as I got his jeans off the phone rang and we both got a fright. After that he put his jeans back on and left rather embarressed. It was really like one of those moments in the movies where they are about to kiss but something happenes; such a cliché I know.
I think we are both ready to 'spend the night together' but after last night I think it needs to be REALLT special but I'm not sure how. With my ex I bought Silk sheets, bottle of wine, strawberries and candles; the complete works and boy did that turn out amazing! But I'm not sure if those things will work or just be in bad taste with my lover.
I will admit, silk sheets are amazing to have sex on and would like to have him on them but it may be a cheezy no? Candles set the mood but again I dont know if he would go for that or not. I want to surprise him with this and want to create a really great memory of not only his first time; but our first time together.
I'm also really nervous about this aswell, I've never done itwith a guy before and dont really know 'how' to make love to a man. I've watched a few videos (I'm so embarressed right now to even admit that) and the basic line of it is you bound his *** but thats not really my style but I dont know how to satisfy a man.
My questions are:
1 - What items would you recommend for our first time? What would you like to be surprised with ? Candles? Silk Sheets?
2 - Best way to make our expereince together easy and fun?
3 - General tips, advice, words of wisedom on the matter?
On a personal note, I do plan on using a condom and lube.
I appologise if any of the content offends you but I'm nervous and just typed what came to mind. |
| I'm not sure what you have in mind. The first time my ex and I had sex we just did oral and 69 and some hand job stuff. But we basically spent two days in bed. And of course a lot of making out and talking. We had anal a a week later, but he brought it up and said he wanted me to top. And I was fine with that arrangement. You don't have to go out of your way to set the scene, he will just be happy to have you naked in his bed. But candles can be a nice touch. Don't be embarrassed about any of this. If you are self conscious and inhibited it will ruin it. Communicate what you want from him. Listen to want he wants from you. Other than that, just go slow, spend some time on foreplay and don't just rush to the climax. Good luck. |
Im a straight acting gay guy who just got into his first gay relationship.? the other guys is straight acting as well but very spontaneous and really wired. what should i do about him. were going out for the first time today!!! and im nervous. |
| You do know that we are all nervous on our first date. Perfectly natural. That may be why he seems wired around you. Just a little advise, no coffee. |
Just out of curiosity is Little Richard Gay or Bisexual? (Just saw his movie for the first time)? I grew up assuming he just dressed a bit odd, then heard he was gay, but the bio pic I saw of him made it seem like he liked both. I still respect his music one way or the other but I am curious :) |
| pretty sure he's at least bi, but probably gay :) |
I have a gay friend and he says for the first time in his life he fell in love with a female. Can that be? possible? |
Yes.
There is a difference between love and sexual attraction. |