Should it be a felony for taking voyeur pictures of women without their consent in the US? My fiance takes pictures of women in their bikini's and butt shots while they are frolicking on the beach when we go on vacation together. It's without their consent. I consider this voyeuristic. Should it be a felony in the US? I don't know what the laws are regarding this in the US. |
Not at all.
There exists no reasonable expectation of privacy on a public beach, so no consent is needed to take photographs or record video.
Recording audio without consent, even on a public beach, MAY be illegal depending on the state. |
At some point did you realize your fiance or husband may be a voyeur? Is it a bad thing? My fiance takes pictures of women frolicking on the beach in their bikinis and butt shots too when we are on vacation together. I think he is a voyeur. I suspect he takes these types of pictures for his porn stash. He is 50 years old. So is this a bad thing. How do I deal with this or do I Iet it go? |
| Yeah, I think it's a bad thing. He shouldn't be looking at (or photographing) other women's bottoms period, but especially not while on vacation with you. This is not normal, and I think you need to talk to him about it. |
What makes a person a voyeur? What has happened to make a person that way? What do you do if you suspect? your SO is a voyeur? Do you seek professional help or do you get out of the relationship?
My SO likes to take pictures of women in their bikinis or a$$ shots when we are on vacation. He took a picture of a young co-worker of his with her baby niece on her lap playing on her computer. He got her permission. The picture looked innocent because it was shot from above and behind her. He was her boss btw. Still I was uncomfortable that he did that. I'm not sure how to handle this. What makes a person a voyeur? Don't they know there are boundaries in life? |
| If you stay, you're basically saying that you're okay with it. It's almost like visual rape. I know one and I know he was sexually deprived in a former marriage. I couldn't accept it. Being a victim myself, I can't deal with perverts. |
Is my fiance a voyeur, peeping tom or pervert? When we went on vacation and were on the beach or in a sailboat he took several up close pictures of women’s butts or their backsides when they were facing the ocean and he was behind them. So, these women were unaware of him taking their pictures. The women of course were in their bikinis. There were some pictures of teenagers on the beach too–standing in groups or walking into the water.
I don’t think a husband, father or boyfriend would appreciate a total stranger taking pictures of their wife, teenage daughters or someones girlfriend for their own personal use to view them later or for a porn stash.
Do other men do this type of thing when they are with their significant other? He is 50 years old by the way.
Would you break up with someone over this type of behavior? He won’t seek help as I asked him to see a male therapist regarding sexual deviant behaviors. |
"Would you break up with someone over this type of behavior? "... Yes
"He won’t seek help as I asked him to see a male therapist regarding sexual deviant behaviors."..This is a deal breaker.
If he insists on behaving this way, he needs to be a bachelor. This is completely repellent behavior.
It should be clear to you that he does not believe he is doing anything wrong. In my eyes, he has problems relating to women as people. He views them strictly as sexual objects. How insulting is that? Why would you continue on with a man that views you, and all women this way? You would do well to lose this fool.. quickly. |
My husband and I just went on a nice vacation to the Carribean, and I found out that he was taking videos? of other women who were much prettier/thinner and dressed much nicer than me. One video I found was one of him focusing on this beautiful blonde girl for over 4 minutes, following everything that she was doing.
There were other videos I saw, and who knows how many he deleted before he found out I saw them.
Am I right to be hurt? I mean, this was OUR vacation, and what the hell is he doing looking at other women? And taping them without them even knowing? t's almost sick. I have low self esteem as it is....I don't need this kind of cr @ p making things worse for us. I mainly spent the rest of our vacation after I found the video just drinking, a lot by myself.
I was so hurt, he tried to re-assure me that it had nothing to do with me at all, he said he thinks he may be a voyeur. I mean, I love to people watch too, but I don't freaking video them!!! And why were all these women things I am NOT?
I would not be comfortable in a bikini top, or half of what these girls had on. |
| Maybe he was on assignment for Girls Gone Wild......... |